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During those ten years, I lost love, a pregnancy, and my health. I truly believed I had lost.
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My heart has been bashed, bruised, and broken.
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Hopefully the next someone will treasure and treat my heart with love and respect. It reminded me that even with a broken heart, I am still standing. There are still so many possibilities for me. I am lucky to have a supportive mother and sister. They are my sanity—my light. Spending time with Grand women seeking geek dating relaxes me in a way.
I know for sure I can always share my happiness and sorrow with. I can always depend on them without feeling the slightest bit of guilt. Being single is a call to focus on. Sometimes being in a relationship can make you lazy about developing.
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But he body-shamed me at one of the most vulnerable moments possible.
I got dressed, left his apartment, and I broke things off. It was too indicative of what was to come. I was, and still am, extremely disappointed. I feel stuck. I was baffled by the men who seemed so normal but talked only about themselves on dates, clearly only interested in hooking up even though their profiles suggest. It was like they were so Sweet women seeking casual sex female wants male with selling themselves that they forgot to ask about me.
These are grown-ass men! I deleted the dating apps. How much time do I really have to build this family that I so badly want? Please keep in mind that this family does not even need to involve children. A stable, loving partner comes.
If children happen, great. If not, I can deal.
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I want to meet someone to share my life. Why is this so hard? As mentioned above, yes, I am an introvert. But I get.
What do I do with this lost, empty feeling? Why am I, and so many of my smart, beautiful, successful friends, struggling to meet decent men?
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You believe in love, you believe that you will find love, you are determined to stay open and find love. And also? You do want to have a baby. Own your faith. Own your vision. There are good men, good women, good people in the world. True love is always possible. But you have to believe Ellsworth afb SD cheating wives it.
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